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| User Name: mokakream2002 |
Gender: Male
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| Interest: Serious Relationship |
Looking For: Women |
| Location: Cincinnati, OH |
| Last Visit: May 1st, 2026 05:05PM |
Height: 6'0" |
| Birthday: Aug 8th |
My Age: 48 |
| Ethnicity: Black |
Body Type: Muscular |
| Hair Color: Black |
Eye Color: Black |
| Education: Graduate Degree |
Employment: Regular Job |
| Income: At Least $500000 |
Drink: Social Drinker |
| Smokes: Never Smoke |
Drugs: Never |
| College: Hampton University |
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| Job Title: Information Technology |
Industry: Information Technology |
About Me:
Despite the rumors of no "good" Black men being available, we are out here in strong numbers. We may not make the headlines with "banging" money, flashy cars, "bling bling", or whatever, but we do quietly work to be an active part of our children's lives, we do give our time to community and social events and organizations that support our communities and provide vehicles for our children to find someone they can look up to, model, or turn to when the pace of life runs out of control. We do work hard to make ends meet, take care of our financial, professional, and personal obligations and responsibilities. We do make a difference each and every day.
We are out here. And some of us are out here alone. Some of us have a difficult time finding that "better half", that queen to our king; that is not into games, deceit, mis-direction, mis-communication, and the complex array of issues which all translate to "DRAMA"; that typically wears down and destroys the seemingly strongest of relationships. Some of us honestly want nothing more than to give love, and receive love equally in return (not to be translated as SEX only), give our hearts to a woman who will treat it with respect, protect it, and treasure it - and if she finds she can not respect it, protect it, and treasure it, then she gives it back, unbroken and whole, just as we (good Black Men) do and would.
I honestly can not speaking for all of us out here - Lord knows there are some trifiling men and women out there, but just for myself, that's what I'm looking for. :-)
If your interested in being friends with a man who knows what friendship is - the foundation for anything else, feel free to drop me a line
And if this profile was too much for you to read - that in itself speaks volumes to the type of person we both are seeking to find. I'm not too terribly deep, but I wouldn't want anyone to waste their time engaging with someone they don't really want to know beyond the surface. I certainly don't plan to. :-)
So, reach out to me if my words touch something inside you, recognizing that word are just that - words. Life is for the living and only though our interactions can we share a life together. I can promise you I will not be any other man than who I am - regardless of you, if you can make the same commitment, we can be off to a great friendship at the least.
Continued blessings, peace, love, and lottsa smiles in your life!
Who I'm Looking For:
I know she is out there. God just hasn't had our paths cross until now. She is intelligent, confident, attractive, goal oriented with her head on straight. She prides herself on her physical fitness and abhors smoking with a passion. She knows who she is already and doesn't have to be a woman for some man other than the woman she already is for herself. She longs, as do I, for the days when I arrive home from work before she does, and she jumps into my waiting arms as I greet her with a kiss. Knowing that my back will not be sore the next day from her being "big and beautiful". :-)
She is willing and able to articulate to me her dreams, her fears, her emotions, her hopes, her goals, her loves, and her desires as I listen carefully to her speaking heart. She feels confident in my selfless support of her in every way, by her side both physically and mentally, embracing her essence in total security without suffocation.
She is willing and able to listen to my dreams, my fears, my emotions, my goals, my loves, and my desires, providing deepening questions to understand my point of view without the need to eclipse them with her own. She seeks a level of balance obtained through careful listening and attentive concerns.
She has a willingness to love and return love unselfishly. Our smiles light up the room together. Her passion runs deep and long as we work together for both of our common goals and ambitions. Physically, mentally, financially, and spiritually on the same sheet of music.
She has outgrown or completly bypassed the media portrayed, materialistic, need a street thug, ride or die chick, needing a sponsor, immature looking for a boy to play with, type woman. She instead, prides herself in being able to attend Black tie affairs, travel the world on weekend getaways, has or working towards her own everything, deeply rooted in her faith, and accepting of responsibility for her actions and direction in life.
Her love for the Lord is in balance without strain. Her gift of motherhood is a fountain still flowing with nourishment and promise.
She understands that while nurturing is perhaps a woman's gift of nature, an equally grown a$$ man has probably outgrown the need for mothering and smothering. Being able to share a person's life and lifestyle, without needing to be "under" them at every turn is a reciprocated adult understanding we would share.
She accepts her own faults without needing to highlight mine. My ego is not a dance floor to her high-heeled vanity. Her mutual respect is as equally apparent as is mine.
She is a woman, in a bikini, an evening dress, or jeans. She is not perfect and neither am I, but she is willing to work on perfect understanding of the man working to perfectly understand her. And she is still out there, somewhere, our paths are destined to cross. Is this the time?
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